I Hate My Ex Girlfriend, BoyFriend, Husband, Wife

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I have given my ex almost 10,000 in alimony and child support in the last 6 months and she refuses to get a job. She is almost out of money now and expects me to give her more money so that she can stay home with the girls all summer long and sleep, eat, and be lazy.

#1326 (0) - May 14, 2010 07:37 PM by michelangelesque - Wife - I hate your Ex too (15) - Your Ex is better off without you (12)

ex wife is a slut,after she f***ed my friend i kicked her out.then the two of them hired some guys to kill me and all he got charged with was uttering death threats.she is walking the streets looking for the next victom great legal system we have.watch out guys rochelle p is evil b*tch

#1309 (1) - Apr 30, 2010 03:56 PM by homer - Wife - I hate your Ex too (30) - Your Ex is better off without you (9)

Ive been waiting four long years for my wife to change, I put my self through hell recently for 10 months just to give her everything. now shes fucking othe guys never cleans the house, she moved her drug addict sister into my house while I was gone for the 10 months. I am sick of her.

#1038 (0) - Apr 2, 2010 09:49 PM by War Junky - Wife - I hate your Ex too (27) - Your Ex is better off without you (11)

is it too much to ask in this world for people to accually mean their marriage vows even when the worst comes. i guess i need to learn new ways to be with women nowadays, for the life of they r all fcked up in ways i cant grasp. i wish i never have felt this love any love its just not worth it guys.

#1035 (1) - Apr 1, 2010 12:52 PM by coolbreeze - Wife - I hate your Ex too (13) - Your Ex is better off without you (4)

Hey Everyone, Since everyone has been asking what has been wrong with me the past couple of days, well here it goes. Y'all know that Brandon and I were together for almost 4 years. In Dec. 09, he lost his job as most of you know, and didn't really worry too much as he had told me that some of the contractors that he had met while working at Home Depot said that they would help him out. And one of them did, which was great. After that Brandon could not find anything, and I didn't blame him I know there is nothing out there, as you all know. So, I said to him, if he couldn't find anything after the new year, to please go to Ridgecrest and see if there was anything there, OK BAD IDEA !! SHOULD HAVE NEVER TOLD HIM THAT. He was there almost two weeks and asks if he can come back to get some more of his clothes, and I said that was not a problem. He and Chris came down, and took almost everything that was here, and he had an excuse that he was getting bored sitting at Chris's and needed more to do, which me being me, I believed him. There are quite a few things still here that are near and dear to his heart, but he will probably never see those items again because of the following ...... When Brandon left my house, not even 3 days ago, he told me that he still loved me, and gave me a hug that day, but I knew deep down there was more going on. His ring that he dearly loved, our ring, he wasn't wearing it, he had an excuse for that too, it was dirty and soaking back in Ridgecrest. He never ever took off that ring except to take a shower or do the dishes, so I thought it was alittle odd that he didn't have it on. He started to cry while he was packing things up and I asked him what was wrong .. he didn't say anything, he walked over to me and gave me a hug. He said, there was just alot going on, that he had to work through, and get things going, like finding a job so he could come back down here to be with his family. Ok, so again , I bought it. As he got into Chris's car, he said I love you and I will call you when we get back so you know that we made it. And I said ok, but had a real uneasy feeling ... so I texted him and asked " Are we over ?" and he text back saying that he has had time to think while we have been apart and he doesn't think that he is able to take care of us anymore, I deserve better then a 22 year old boy. WTF ?? So, I called him and said those exact words .. and I asked what is going on, he said that he had come down here to tell me something, but when I opened the door for them, he decided not to tell me and he just wanted to hug me and never let go and didn't want to have to go back. That he realized just how much he really does love me and our kids, and our family and just didn't want to let go. Then he was saying he felt so bad that the kids and I had to be here and he was there, and he needed to figure out a way to make things right. He needed time to make things right but that he still loves me and he always will. So we hung up and I told him " I love you Brandon " And he said " I love you so much Lyssa" Our kids went to snow camp that weekend and Kaylea had Kody take a picture of her sliding down the hill. Which he did and sent it to my phone, with a note that said " Mom could you please send this to Brandon so that he can see that we are having fun!" So, I did what she asked, with a note that said something to the effect of us breaking up, I have no idea why I said that with that picture, stupid me, but all Brandon wrote back was ok. I asked so you really have given up on us then? He wrote back "NO, I haven't but it sounds like u have. saying u will tell the kids we have broke up. Did u give up? I still love u" I said, I am so not even close to ready to give up on us or our family. He said " Neither and I but I need time to make things right" I told him take your time, I will still be here, just please don't forget about me while you are doing this. he wrote back " I could never and will never forget u. I love u 2 much 2 forget" I told him thank you so much that when he said that, it made me feel so much better, and that I am still so in love with him. He said " I was physicly exosted from crying and the meds so iam going 2 crash" ( I realize these words are spelt wrong, but I am coping them word for word what Brandon was texting to my cell, and I still have all of these texts if anyone thinks I am lying or making this whole thing up, I have proof!! ) I said, that I was tired too but not from meds and how I wished we could text the next day, but my cell was going to die that day. So I said good night and hope he felt better and I really still do love him! He text back saying that" I love u 2 text me from moms computer on monday if u can. I told him ok, but thinking back, why couldn't I text him from moms computer the next day,but I told him that I loved him too! And to please not forget that !! I would text him monday. Muah Muah!. He came back with" ok me 2. Talk 2 u on monday. I love u nite babe. Muah!" And the last text I send to him was, we should have done that while he was here. and he texted and said" I know i should have. Nite love U" And that is how we ended Saturday night. SUNDAY Jan. 17th 2010, I was on line in the morning, just checking on my myspace and his like I had always done, and come to find out, one of his friends, had taken pictures of him and put them on her page. OK no big deal, I went to go and look at them and HOLY SHIT !! There was the man that not less then 12 hours ago had told me that he loved me, could never forget me, he was with another girl!! ok, so I called his friend Chris and asked where Brandon was, he had no idea, but he would tell Brandon that I was looking for him. Funny thing, Brandon called back in less then 5 minutes. Ok, I went off the deep end I will admit that, but I just found out my boyfriend, that man I was going to marry one day, there with another girl. So I started to cry and asked him to explain, all he keep saying was " babe, babe, thats Chris's little sister, thats all. Babe, babe, please listen to me" Well ok you can all see where this is headed, I said you are cheating on me, after you swore on your dead grandmother that you would never do that to me, because you know how it feels, because of your first girlfriend and how you walked in on them! He kept saying over and over again, " I am not cheating Babe, please listen to me" and as luck would have it, his cell either died, or he hung up on me. Now he told me that his phone was almost out of minutes and that if it hangs up, it NOT him that hung up on me and that he would find another phone as fast as he could and call me back. So the phone went dead, and nothing ..... until later that night, he finally did call, and left a message with my mom and she told him, that I probably wouldn't call him back. I had told my mom everything that had happened earlier that day so she would know what was going on in case he called back. I had to get out of the house, so I went to a really good friend of mine's house and told her everything thing .. Thanks for listening Kym !! You are my rock !! So I came home later Sunday night, and mom told me that he had called, but I was still really pissed off at this point .. so I didn't call him until I couldn't take it anymore. I called Chris's cell and said something to the effect ... Chris this is Lyssa, tell Brandon he doesn't have to call me back. I know that he is with her and he does nothing but lie. So good bye, somthing like that. ok now after all of this has taken place, I started feeling like my heart was going to stop, actually stop. So I woke my mom up and asked her and she asked do you need to go to er Lyssa? I didn't know, so I laid back down for awhile and then, I got these shooting pains in my stomach like I had been shoot. ok I know this is not good, I went back and woke my mom up and she said, we are going to ER. I told my mom to stay here and that I would have my friend Lucy, my best friend now at days, to please come over and take me to ER. I really didn't want to wake up my kids and tell them where I was going and why so mom stayed here and we went. ok anyone who knows me, they know I HATE NEEDLES WITH A PASSION !! and so the first thing they do to me, is they hook me up to a heart machine and take blood. My heart rate was rather high, wonder why, but they were worried about something else the could feel when they did that wonderful poke you everywhere and ask .. does this hurt, does this hurt .. I said yes, so they ran some more test. Come to find out, I have an ulcer!! Wonderful.. now what ? They told me to go to high desert urgent care, and have an ultra sound done so they could see where exactly it was and how big. ok, so we are heading out there at the wee hours of the morning, really not wanting to hear what they were about to find. So they got me to drink a ton of water, like thats what I want to do, and had me lay on that cold table what felt like for hours. Finally they came in and did the scan. ok now I have two kids, so I kinda know what everything should look like, but they told me it didn't look like an ulcer, maybe a tumor. My day just kept getting better and better .. it looked like to me, like the tumor was in my stomach. And I was like Holy cow how did that get there ?? What did I do ? And the tech said, hold on a minute, and flipped a switch on the machine, and I heard that wonderful train sound. Ladies, you know what I am talking about !! My heart sank, so deep inside my chest. I'm like the tumor has a heartbeat great, the tech laughed and said, no but your baby does. OMG ! Most of you already know that when Brandon and I were together early on, I did get pregnant, and thanks to his father, we lost it. His dad would do everything in his power to piss us off. and he did. Brandon said he would never forgive him for that either, but I am sure he has now. I am thinking that since my tubes were burned , I couldn't get pregnant at all, but for some reason we did that first time. Now with this baby, the tech explained it to me like this, when you have you tubes tied, there is a chance they will grow back, if they are burned then there is really no way to get pregnant. All this time, I thought that my tubes were burned, but the looked up my records and it said tubal ligation. Not cauterization, which the tech explained that meant your tubes were burned, but that's not what I had done. All these years and come to find this out, OMG so I'm a little freaked out .. but here is a picture of the ultra sound that he took for me. And usually they doesn't take them that early for people who are on the county, but this was so unbelievable and still is. For all of those people who don't believe me, I really don't care what you think, here is the proof !! Its my name and look at the date. And why the hell would I lie about something like this ?? I mean, Brandon just left me for some girl, and won't talk to me, didn't even break up with me, and has this new girl. So, I know, he won't care, but I do. They guess the due date to be around Sept. 25/26 2010. Fun right after fair,lol. oh well. So theres my story ... I came home, and basically died, well fell asleep lol, because I was just so tired and confused and hurt and now I have this wonderful life that was created by two people that I thought loved each other for life. And I know, Brandon will never see this as he is not on my friends list anymore. But I wanted to share this with all of you, almost all of you are my friends or know of me. I will keep you all posted on how things are going. Not sure when I can have another ultra sound done, but as soon as I do, I will for sure post it here. Thank you to all of you that have been worried about me. That means so much to me. I'll be fine. I have my two wonderful kids to help me and Lucy, I so love my best friend and the rest of my family for support. Thank you all .... as soon as I find out the s*x, help me pick out name please !!

#1029 (0) - Mar 30, 2010 01:47 PM by Heartbroken - Wife - I hate your Ex too (10) - Your Ex is better off without you (9)

this stupid bitch slept with 3 different guys while i was married to her....married for a year and half..she was hiding money away and not making the house payment with the money i was giving her. So now i'm dealing with a house thats in forclosure and still having to hear her bitch to me

#893 (1) - Feb 27, 2010 08:35 AM by nodda - Wife - I hate your Ex too (39) - Your Ex is better off without you (6)

I married a woman who just wanted to leave home. After 1 year, she left me and took everything I bought for us: she had made up 4 different versions of a domestic abuse story and put me in jail! It is BS: I am a US Marine. I spent every cent I made risking my ass for her. I hate females now.

#661 (0) - Feb 15, 2010 01:36 PM by Unfairly Treated - Wife - I hate your Ex too (69) - Your Ex is better off without you (7)

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